Over due one!

 

Originally to be posted 8 days back!

I love this month! Long waiting period’s come to an end! Managed to get the driver’s license! ‘B’s progress at work front! Met some great people, bracketed in ‘my cherish list’. Ah!! So many things happening! Slow Down World!!

I’m thoroughly elated and ecstatic about the sudden events & a transparent face value is genuinely hard to control. Now, to those wondering, “What the heck is she blogging about?” ---- No Q’s & A’s sessions, just getting down point blank to some inference gained in the run! Why do we humans, tend to celebrate and be proud of ‘the happy state of mind’? Why don’t we give any credits to the preceding low phase, which changed almost everything including developing better individual skills like patience, perseverance, humbleness and others? Not to mention the far sightedness, practicalities of the world?

Most of us are taught to qualify written exams and not to create awareness in ourselves: P. Experience, they say, is the best teacher and I guess, time proved it true in my life.

Over the past few months, I argued, struggled, grumbled and came to acceptance with the truth to the question, “What is the pursuit to happiness?”A ‘fancy, flashy’ lifestyle sounds tempting but maybe a ‘dutiful’ or ‘world saving’ lifestyle would seem focus driven! Many thoughts filled the vacuum in my head and I realized its human minds that conceive notions and barricade ‘mind thinking levels’. Create a mindset and try to live up to it or by it! --- Sounds like a software program to attain ‘happiness’:D

In short, each individual is ‘just one who tries to emulate/ live up to ‘another individual’s perception. Now, you know why those ‘ never ending’ soap operas in TV channels get high TRP’s and how cliché movies run packed houses?

For me, ‘the phase’ lasted months and while ‘sulking to contentment’ took a life time to manifest, i gained knowledge each and every day! Reading my ‘reference guide’, meditation & implementation helped me analyse problems in a different light. I, began to notice the subtle changes including new found traits ‘perseverance, patience, contentment & inherent joy’ materializing. The build-up of negative energy slowly started to drain away, giving in to constructive ideas, methods & plans. My better half, ‘B’ supported me a huge chunk, nodding to all my ploys & ideas :)

Reality Check: Self realization is a must and helps each one of us to be better individuals !



“Men can starve from a lack of self-realization as much as they can from a lack of bread.” - Richard Wright